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Now that I’m a single girl on the town; I’m realizing that the selection of men is endless!
It reminds me of lingerie shopping; so many choices! How’s a girl to pick just one? The truth is…….I don’t have to pick just one! I’m in charge and I can have an entire collection of…….lingerie (and men!).
When choosing a man; there are many considerations that are the same as choosing a piece of lingerie. When I’m fingering a sexy piece of material (or sizing up a male); I’m always thinking of these main things….
The Right Fit?
Is this camisole going to fit my body perfectly? Is it going to be just the right amount of snugness over my breasts? I like a little bit of spill over; don’t you? When I’m Bra Shopping; sometimes I’ll go a cup size smaller just to get that nice, tight sensation. When it comes to men;I wonder if he’ll fit. Does he have a bulge in his pants or is it a smoothed out zipper area? Sometimes I can tell just by looking but sometimes I just have to try it on for myself to make sure!
Sometimes a girl knows what her preferred size is but every once in a while is willing to give something new a try!
I prefer the top of the line in quality. If I’m out on the town I rarely find myself dipping into my wallet; I like to find a man that knows how to shower me in luxury. Speaking of luxury; the material must be the absolute best! Silk is amazing against my body but occasionally; I want something a bit rougher. Know what I mean? My panty fetish can only be satisfied by new panties…..all the time!
Keep or Return?
Once in a while; I’ll buy an outfit just so I can take it home and try it on. If I like it; I’ll add it to my collection. If I don’t; I’ll just return it to the store. It’s nice to be able to take my time running my fingers over every inch, embracing the fit, learning how to adjust the straps and sometimes……. even falling in love with it.
Want to see what kind of lingerie I like? Just visit my Amazon wish list; you can even send me a little something for me to try on! I can’t wait for our next phone sex call; let’s try each other on…shall we?
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Love this post! It’s just how I think of a good pair of shoes. The best men are like your fave pair of heels; sexy, cute, classic, feel as great as they look, compliment your style don’t clash and will have a supportive sole/soul for the long haul 😉
Fantastic post, Ms. Scarlet! I’ve never really thought of comparing shopping for lingerie with shopping for men, but you’re exactly right! Same experience, different items – and goodness knows there is so much variety found among panties and men, which means a girl never has to worry about having a dull moment – in or out of her panties. *wink wink*
Ms Scarlet ~ Oh my sexy we friend, we need to get together. I too am single and have started to toy with dipping my toe in the dating pool. You are so right, there are so many options! I love the comparison to lingerie shopping. It is very appropriate. Both are something you have very specific taste in, needs tried on and can make you feel oh so sexy. Yet if they are not up to your standards or not a good fit (both should always make you feel sexy) return them without a second though or don’t even bring them home at all! Great post Ms Scarlet!
Amazing post , Ms. Scarlet. You are right. I never really thought about it, but dating is very much like lingerie shopping. There are just as many types of men out there, as there are sexy lingerie sets!Finding the right fit is very important. When the fit isn’t right, we have to keep making adjustments, which can be annoying. Some spill over is wonderful!!! So true 🙂
You are so right Ms. Scarlet – they can be so much alike. And really, what do women love more – shopping or getting lots of attention from men? Personally, I don’ t see why we should have to choose. But the truth is, they are both fun and favorites of any female… and of any Crossdresser.
And now that you’ve planted a visual in all of your readers’ minds of you in sexy lingerie, I’m sure they’ll all want to shower you with new sexy things…