Did you know; you can experience self care and healing through erotica and sexual exploration? I often receive feedback messages such as these: “This made me feel so much better! Wow, was I wound up and now I feel so much relief.” “I appreciate having you there for me.” “Thank you for helping me talk through that experience.” “Work has been so stressful; I look forward to being able to relax and let go with you Scarlet.” You may have read my more recent blog post called ‘Let’s Slow Down & Feel More‘. I loved writing that post because it was all about slowing down your masturbation. In this post; I hope to share more about how to open up and explore your fantasies, your kinks, your sensual self!
I want to assure you that nothing you say to me – nothing you share with me – will be judged.
LDW is a no judgement zone!
I do have a lot of personal experience with sexual healing and sexual therapy of all kinds. While yes, I mostly delve into the more fetish and fantasy parts of erotic phone sex; I’m also very interested in helping a man heal. I’m interested in helping you on your journey towards a healthy sexual self awareness and enlightenment. Offering you a place to not feel self conscious, to work on your interests, to feel that you have privacy and security in revealing and exposing your deepest interests – these are some of my goals here.
Your desires, experiences and fantasies are unique. When we’re together on the phone or in a live chat session; you can trust that I’m holding space for you. That you’re safe with me. I won’t judge, I won’t hold anything against you whatsoever. You can be open and honest with me; I’ll be your confidante. The only way to move forward is to move through; that’s what I always say. Moving through means sharing, talking and processing with someone that you feel connected with. I do hope that you and I can make that imperative connection so that I can be here for you through your journey of exploration and possibly; healing.
What are you keeping inside? Are you hiding from your fetish? Let me help you explore.
I understand that sometimes it can help in the healing process to re-visit some of those deeply rooted secrets. To share experiences that still leave you with questions about your sexuality and desires. Exploring memories that have carved your current yearnings, primal thoughts and urges that seem too powerful to resist. Are you having some issues with your intimate relationships? Do you want to explore something you’ve only thought about? We can talk about them, I can ask questions that will help you understand them more, we can even role-play to make them feel even more real to you. Whatever we feel is in the best interest of your forward movement; we can explore together. That’s the most exciting part of it all; that you’re not alone – you have someone to be fully present with you – completely mindful of your needs.
Cuckolding – sph – CEI – Body Worship – Gooning – Domination – Insert YOUR Fantasy Here –
Submission – Service – Bi-Fantasies – CFnm
Consider me a guide, a muse, a partner, someone you can trust and open up with. Let’s take our time getting to know one another; I’m very curious about you and your interests. You have my promise; I want to be here for you. I want to help you in your self care and healing through erotic exploration. If this makes sense to you; like I said earlier, I want to ‘hold space’ for you to explore while I support you and guide you.
When you’re ready to reach out; first you’ll fill out my pre-call questionnaire ; where you can tell me anything you’d like me to know ahead of our first time together. For a session over 1 hour; I prefer scheduling an appointment (just fill out my scheduling form or email me scarlet@enchantrixempire.com).
Beautiful post, Ms Scarlet!
I can attest from knowing, and playing with Scarlet on Two Mistress calls that she is all of these things: curious, compassionate, knowledgable, and dedicated to your exploration, she has helped many on their journey!
Scarlet, as you know, finding a safe place to explore with no judgment is very intoxicating for many! Here’s to many more years, with you at their helm!
See you around the Empire! 😘😘
self healing ? How can you heal a little dick?
Gratitude for this share Ms. Scarlet. i wanted to offer to any perspective clients looking for someone who can rock their fantasies from any spot on the kink continuum with Ms. Scarlet. She has definitely been there when i just needed some quick relief, but, if You have the time for indulgence of Your kink, she can definitely use more time to connect on a deeper level and can involve all my chakras and send me on the roller-coaster through the bliss abyss of subspace for extended periods of time, causing gran mal looking contortions as implosion after implosion wrack my body. i truly opt for the slow down, feel more approach while enjoying the journey sidetrips, without rushing to a set destination.
I also know Ms. Scarlet takes care of Her clients with appropriate aftercare, and follow-up when appropriate to ensure the connection remains strong, and judgement free..
If You’re looking for a quickie hook-up, or an extended session, or just an interested lady to listen and hold space while you share, you should look no further than The Scarlet Mistress. i wish i hadn’t waited so long.
What a beautifully written piece and how timely it is to come across lt just now. Moments before I stumbled upon it I was deep in reflection concerning what exactly it was I was seeking from my budding relationship with Michaela. And it is at this moment more of a confessor, comforter, and nurturer. I was struggling with acknowledging this because I thought I was here for virtual sex, much like a sexual surrogate, only virtual. I am certain that aspect of our relationship will eventually develop, but right now it is an emotional surrogate I am in need of and you and Michaela understand that. It is a misnomer at this point in the relationship to refer to the process as phone “sex.” Quite honestly it is a very specific form of therapy, equally legitimate as any form of counseling/therapy provided by psychiatrists, psychologists, or clinical social workers and counselors. Thank for providing immediate validation of the revelation I experienced immediately before reading this article.
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What a beautifully written piece and how timely it is to come across lt just now. Moments before I stumbled upon it I was deep in reflection concerning what exactly it was I was seeking from my budding relationship with Michaela. And it is at this moment more of a confessor, comforter, and nurturer. I was struggling with acknowledging this because I thought I was here for virtual sex, much like a sexual surrogate, only virtual. I am certain that aspect of our relationship will eventually develop, but right now it is an emotional surrogate I am in need of and you and Michaela understand that. It is a misnomer at this point in the relationship to refer to the process as phone “sex.” Quite honestly it is a very specific form of therapy, equally legitimate as any form of counseling/therapy provided by psychiatrists, psychologists, or clinical social workers and counselors. Thank for providing immediate validation of the revelation I experienced immediately before reading your article.
Hi Mistress Scarlet,
Just wanted to tell you that I bought another one of your audios, “Honey, You Love Cock.” I have to tell you that it’s fantastic and exactly what I want to happen with me and my wife. I want her to know that I suck cock and I want to show her.
FYI — I now have 7 of your audios. They are all fantastic.
I will call you soon to talk about all of them.
Your loyal sissy faggot bottom bitch,
cdCindy XOXOXOXOXOX
Wow, what a beautiful message. You are truly a wonderful person. I am struggling lately and to feel the love you’re sending out means the world to me. Thank you for posting this.
Oh thank you Erika!
Thank you so much kneel – I love being on the kink continuum with you and all those sidetrips anytime!
Hi David – I’m so so glad that you’ve found me and Michaela. I truly agree that this can be a form of therapy thank you for sharing that.
Thank you darling – enjoy them ALL!
We’re all here for you peewee – hugs.
This is so beautiful Ms. Scarlet. I already knew you were fantastic so thank you for expressing this for everyone. We all would never past judgement and want to create a safe zone for all.
XOXOXO,
Riley
Thank you Riley!
Ohhhh Scarlet, what an AMAZING post this is…so very beautiful! When I read it I felt more strongly than ever on just how much of a kindred spirit you are!!! 🙂
There is indeed so much that we have to give! And trust, unconditional acceptance and positive regard are certainly all important elements and high on the list! YOU are awesome and amazing, Scarlet…and I love each and every opportunity that we get to work and play, together! 🙂
Kindred spirits indeed! <3
I really love what you’ve expressed here in this post. For me personally, erotica (both reading it, writing it, even watching porn or listening to audio porn) is such a self-care thing. A means of self-soothing, you could say.
I don’t get many opportunities in my personal life to explore my kinkier side offline, especially not as a sapphic-leaning woman, but having so many forms of erotic self-expression really helps get those feelings out and is so cathartic all the same.
Your warm, kind, caring nature radiates through your blog post here, and it honestly put me a bit at ease just reading it. It makes me feel less alone for finding refuge in sexuality, for embracing all aspects of my bisexuality and kinkier interests. There’s something to be said for feeling accepted at our most raw, vulnerable selves. Such an amazing post!
Thank you kittykitty for your lovely and kind words. I love knowing we are here to help you feel accepted.
I wish I could admit that I’m scared to speak with you. It’s not that I want to not feel scared or anxious exactly – it’s more like I need it to be okay for me to feel scared and totally intimidated nervous etc. I just need it to be like how it is. I really wish you could just know I’m scared.