Did the title appeal to you darling? My first strap on. I’m sure the thought of me and my very first time wearing a strap on harness must have been quite alluring! I was looking over one of our hottest websites here at LDW; straponfemdommes.com and it really made me feel nostalgic when I saw all of the sexy leather strap on harnesses! I may have shared this with you before; but it is such a delicious memory for me that I wanted to share it here on my blog as well.

A bdsm club (some of you know it – a certain NY establishment) was hosting a fem domme event with a pegging theme. I had the perfect submissive taking me around town doing some last minute shopping when we stopped in a certain let’s say violet themed kink store – mmmmm. The moment we walked in the scent of leather hit me and I was instantly aroused. The intention was to find my subbie a sexy leather chest harness but once the store sales person saw me fondling a thin leather strap on harness; he asked if I had one of my own. Truthfully; I did have several – but they were all commercially made – the kind you buy in sex shops and on amazon. He asked if he could ‘fit’ me for a custom harness.

I remember it so well. Standing there in panties while a skilled leatherman slid supple black leather up my leg and tightened it over my thigh; pulling it tight around my tiny waist. He used a blade to trim the leather so nothing was dangling anywhere; just fitting me like a glove! Once the fit was secure he asked what type of stamina and feel I’d like – meaning how did I want to have the dildo held in place. I chose a beautiful – large – steel o-ring that he fastened in place with snaps so I can remove it and replace it anytime with a different size. My playmate just looked on with a mesmerized smile.

And then – he offered me a selection of pegging style dildos to put into the steel o-ring held firmly in the middle of the harness. I chose an 8″ dark black silicone dildo and worked it into the secure ring. Looking in the mirror; I felt so powerful! It felt amazing! I reached down and took hold of my own cock for the first time – MY COCK – and I knew right then that I would change my entire outfit for the evening. I wore my harness over to the waist fishnets; leaving the dildo out for most of the night…………………………not the entire evening of course; but that’s a story for another day…………………………………………in the meantine; look at this post called My Favorite Strap-On Position.

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