How To Spice Up Our Phone Sex Call
It doesn’t matter if you’ve been a connoisseur of phone sex for decades or if it’s your first time; there’s always something new to try! Callers often ask me if I’ve ‘heard it all’ and I can honestly say no, I haven’t! I am always delightfully surprised at your creativity, your fantasies and the little details that go into them. There’s always something new no matter how long it’s been. Thank goodness for our kinky brains or it would be pretty boring – and boring is NOT on the list of things that turn me on. Keep in mind; I’m using the term Phone Sex Call but this does include Live Chat & Sexy Texting Sessions!
Set Time Aside For Us
Sometimes you just get horny. I get it! That’s the time to open up my blog, see if I’m available and just call in if I am! I know it can be frustrating to feel that need and look for me only to find that I’m most likely already in a session. That’s a huge bummer for me, too because I want to spend time with you. So, if you want to make absolutely certain we can spend time together and connect, just schedule a playtime appointment. If you were seeing a fem domme, dominatrix, escort, etc. in real time; that’s what you’d have to do – so why not do that with me? It’s so easy to set up time with me and honestly; I really love knowing who I’m going to be talking with and when – it helps me get into my own head space for our personal session. Here’s the form to submit for setting up a phone sex or a live skype session: Schedule A Session Form
Note: Another fabulous way to reach out to me to set up playtime is right on skype – I hang out there a lot – you may not see me on my blog but I just might be on skype – my username: thescarletmistress
Set Up Your Space
One of the key components to an amazing phone sex session is having total privacy. (except for the ones that kinda want to get caught!). Another component is having plenty of time. As I’ve recently written in my blog posts: Let’s Slow Down and Feel More as well as Self Care and Healing Through Erotica – it’s so much better to take it slow, let it build, and to enjoy the journey! I know that private time may not be easy for you to get; so when you do know it’s coming – schedule our time together! Once you’ve done that; take some time to make sure your space is totally comfy and set up for some hot masturbation play! You may want some soft lighting, access to your laptop if we’re using skype or watching videos together, perhaps a towel underneath you. We all need different things to help us feel ‘ready for intimacy’; I personally like having just taken a shower and put on something to make me feel sexy before my playtimes.
Bring Some Toys
This is an exciting one because not too many guys use toys – why not?! Hey, I am all for the dry hand masturbation if that’s your favorite thing – we can keep doing that forever! Buttttttttttttttttttttt wouldn’t it be interesting, different, spicy even to maybe add a nice lubricant? What about a small vibrator to trace around your balls or up and down your shaft? Right under the head of your cock in that super erogenous zone? Maybe you want to really get frisky and try something for your ass? They make so many toys just for men! I love the look of a cock ring, a cock and ball harness, rope, etc. – that makes for some fun and sexy sensations! Or what about a collar just for playtime? Do you get turned on by the scent of leather like I do? Not sure? Give it a try! A blindfold? Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm – the possibilities are endless! And hey, if you need a personal sex toy shopping guide – I know a kinky redhead that would totally help you pick things out!
Share Your Porn Links!
One of my most popular blog posts ever is called Let’s Watch Porn Together! I was blown away by the calls I’ve received since I wrote that – men so excited that I would want to watch what they want to watch! It’s so true – I think it’s so ridiculously hot to watch porn videos together; especially while we’re talking about what we both like about them. What kind do you like? You can email me the links or send them to me on skype live – but don’t send them until we’ve scheduled a session or are in one together. I only watch them with YOU.
Ask For What You Want – Let’s Explore!
The beauty of fantasies is that yours is unique. You are obviously a sexual creature or you wouldn’t be reading my blog! That is something I really love about you! I want you to know that you can share anything with me; I have always told my callers that their secrets are safe here. That is something I truly take to heart; I mean that. Always have. So, what did you see in that porn video that you’d like to explore more? What did you hear in the locker room? Do you want to tell me about that experience in college? Just talk to me; I’m here to help you go deeper and deeper let’s see where that fantasy might take us.
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